2009年4月28日星期二

Homosexuality

When we talking about homosexuality, although most of us wouldn't say that it's bad, however, we treat homosexual people like abnormal.
Deep in our heart, we treat homosexual like a disease, or even a type of handicap.
We think homosexuality is against the natural law, on the base that we believe homosexuality occurs among human only.
But the truth is, homosexuality also occur among other creatures on the earth.
When scientist observed this phenomenon, initially they thought it occur due to the shortage of either sex in a particular population, i.e. scarcity of male or female.
However, they later found out that homosexuality also occur at the populations where the percentage of the both sex is almost equal, e.g. sheep.
If "natural" means the phenomenon that is not under control of human, then homosexuality is natural.
Being homosexual shouldn't be discriminated nor treated inferior.
Discriminating homosexual is like treating unfair to woman in the history.
It is ridiculous from the perspective of our descendants.

2009年4月25日星期六

Self-trust

When facing the moment when we need to make the life-changing choice, we feel nervous and lack of confidence, since it's hard to predict the outcome of the choice.
People used to say that we should believe in ourselves when facing such moment.
"Follow your heart."
However, most of us didnt't take this approach when we meet such scenario in reality.
We are making the choice that our family and environment make for us, and regretting the outcome of the choice, since it's not what we desire for.
Why we're acting in this way? Why we can't believe in ourselves in life-changing moment?
Before answer the questions, we should ask ourselves, am I trustworthy?
Ask yourself whether the below statements have ever occur in your daily life:
a) I've promise to myself to exercise 3 times each week, but I never keep the promises, even for 2 weeks.
b) I've promise to myself to wake up early at the next day, but I used to dismiss the thought at the very next morning.
c) I've promise to myself to quit some bad habits, i.e. smoking and drinking, but still doing it after few days.
We used to make promises to ourselves, and break them easily.
We are irresponsible to the self-promises.
Like withdrawing from a bank account without depositing, gradually our trust to ourselves becomes virtually non-existent.
We're not trustworthy to ourselves.
So, when facing the moment to choose, we rather believe what other people suggest us, because deep inside our heart we know that they're more trustworthy than ourselves.

2009年4月22日星期三

很久没见面的朋友遇见了,之间好像隔着一堵透明的墙。
物是人非,我们总会感慨着。
好像别人都变了,自己好像根本跟不上那变化的节奏似的。
其实,所谓的物是人非,应该也包括我们自己吧。
人与人之间,应该像在一条河里遇见的水滴。
我们都回不了过去,别人在变,自己也何尝不是在变。
突然好想你们,淡淡交会过的水滴们。
我想你。